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Lori (zukidarlin)


December 30, 2011


richmond, Indiana 47374


June 29, 1960


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Steriods R hurting me and they didn't tell me!

wow had to go to ER tonight. I am so swollen it scared me. Come to find out I have steriod induced edema and steriod induced diabetes. I recieve steriods before every chemo treatment which I recieve every wednesday Taxol. I am on my 6th treatment. The ER doctor wondered if they discussed it with me last wens at my chemo treatment. Of course they didnt – He said he pulled my records and my sugar was way over 230 then it was 290 tonight;.

So I cant trust them. they take my blood before every chemo and to make sure i am ok and they didnt care to tell me about my sugar levels rising each week. I even called them Monday and said I was swollen – my face, neck and arms and they said take benedryl and we will see you wens. I am glad I went to the ER tonight cause chemo is in the morning and they could have sent me into a coma if I didnt find out what was going on by the ER dr.

I’ll post what the Onc’s excuse is tomarrow – when I confromt him about this. What would be an acceptable excuse. My levels rose every week they just got higher and higher and no one cared. Now I am scared.

Kiwifestor sent you a hug.

I’m so sorry that happened…there is no excuse good enough. My onco stays on top of every level and is quick to treat all the extra sypmtoms…I didn’t develope diabetes but I do have asthma from all the treatments and he makes sure I keep an inhaler…my onco told me that for all purposes he is my primary and that anything that is going on he will address…if the onco isn’t acting as your primary I would question that…he is the one with the most info so he better get better at manager your info…let him know we are all watching him and he better get it together! When I used to swell up my kids would call me squishy…lol

Lori-
I really hope you get some satisfactory answers today and are able to speak face to face with the doctor. I know that in my center when I went for chemo ,y doctor didn’t always see me. It was the nurses and they are not trained in every thing and they are overwhelmed most the time running around like chickens with their heads cut off. We patients must be our own advocates and address issues directly with our MDs. No offense to any nurses out there, but it ultimately falls upon the doc. He is the one who prescribed those drugs. I fired my first oncologist. I felt a bit like I was cheating on him when I went to interview another in the same hallway but as it turns out, the first guy was recommending a totally off protocol regimen of Herceptin. We’re not talking about Tylenol here, but a heart toxic chemo agent! I was very glad I questioned things. From what I understand the steroids are to prevent nausea. Maybe you can just go with out them and use other types of anti nausea drugs instead and see how it goes? I wish you the best and hope your numbers come down quickly. Let us know what happens today! Be strong, firm and if necessary request a new doctor. Then sit him down and explain that you want his direct phone number and for him to work very closely with you. I think most of them just expect us to sit back and do any and everything they say and never question them. It might bruise their egos but it is your health and it is your right to have the best care.

Good grief! Some Drs think their patients are stupid sheep and have no brain cells. Sorry you got one of those! I always ask what the results are of every thing the nurses and drs do when I go. I am almost a year out from chemo and didn’t know about the problem with steroids but even to this day whenever I go to the Drs I have them tell me the results of all tests and ask questions.

I have read your story and gee I too am swollen like a water melon. face hands feets..I feel water logged. I will be checking my for any signs of diabetes when i get to the doctor. Its not like he could not see the changes. Good luck to you and thanks for the imput!
Sunshine

Wow….strange because I had extreme swelling from the steroids that started on my 5th chemo…I was on the Taxol part of the chemo. I ended up in emergency and it didn’t go down…after my last chemo, I had to go back into the hospital again for them to check the swelling. They said it would take a while to go down and it did….almost a month. I always joked that I was like a character out of Willy Wonka. Hope you get some help from onco especially about the diabetes which is def hard to control through chemo. Hugs, Rachel

No excuse. I’m glad you went to the ER too. Unfortunately, the cancer has no cure, but the treatment causes all sorts of other things. It will be 2 years for me this summer and I’m still finding new ailments and pains that are a result of chemo or radiation. It’s frustrating that our pharmaceutical companies are making zillions of dollars on our disease. For now, we have to settle for this being our new normal and maybe one day it will improve. I am curious to hear what the onc says. I hope the edema gets controlled for good.
xoxo

Their using my C Card

Some people around me are using my C Card everytime they get a chance. ( I try never to use it) My sig-other uses it every day – He has to tell everyone he sees and get his “good ol boy patt aroo” I ask him not to tell everyone thats my place but to no avail. He used it buying a candy bar at speedway, He doesnt just buy gas anymore, he buys it so he can take the cancer to the doc. He will rub my shoulders in the grocery line and say to the clerkk ” shopping is hard on her cause she has cancer” Now he never rubs my shoulders at home when I need it. Just in front of others so he can get his cuddos and embarrass me. My sister uses it to call off work and cancel meetings “I need to help my sister – she has breast cancer” however she has never come to see me. I heard her do it on the phone and I said – hey your playing my C card. and she replied ” thats what sisters are for” OH I didnt know that!

I am no longer just Lori – I am the Cancer Lori from now on!

and everyone talks to my boobs like they are listening, or the cancer is going to stick out of one of them and nod. Eye contact is way too hard Its like I wish my boob could shake their hand and say “Nice to meet you I am the nasty, growing, killer rot inside of your friend”

Danean, Kiwifestor sent you a hug.

That sucks, Lori. It happened frequently to me, too, especially during treatment. I know how much it hurts, how unfair it is, and how much we wish it would just stop…that the whole damned thing would just stop. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this on top of everything else.

A gigantic hug to you,

Danean

Yeah that sucks! So not right.

So wrong, especially if you call them on it and they don’t stop. I’d be pissed and hurt. You have every right to be upset.

My co-worker uses my cancer card. She has called off several times saying she was not feeling well and didn’t want to get me sick because I am in the middle of my chemo treatments. I reminded everyone that I am fine and if I feel that there are too many germs in the office I will be the one to call off and that they need not be concerned for my welfare. I have not used any sick days for being sick with cancer but she has used several. It just makes me laugh!

I’m real sorry they are doing you this way…it’s so unfair to you,call them on it again an again if you have to so what if they get their feelings hurt they don’t seem to mind hurting yours…hugs & prayers

Wow…I’m so sorry. I know it can suck to be known as the cancer lady. But I will say that I use the cancer card often…but for me it’s more of a weapon than anything. It sort of triggers the fight response in me and usually people are left with the thought that the cancer lady is a bitch to be reckoned with instead of oh poor cancer lady…lol. I don’t know if you are having a masectomy but if so, you’ll love it when you get the prostetic and everyone feels you up…find the humor love it may make those around you uncomfortable but the more uncomfortable they are the more private giggles you may get

I read in a book about cancer that this lady would play pranks…I’m planning to use the hair on hair off in the drive thru…it probably won’t be funny to anyone but me but so what…lol

It makes me mad that they are upsetting you. I also had a lot of fun with the baldness and pulled the card whenever I wanted for a long time, mostly for fun. For me, it was a coping mechanism. I wish I knew you well enough to give you a great come-back line for those careless moments. I would love to hear that you made a couple of those people feel very awkward.
I just thought of one, but you have to be pretty sarcastic like me to actually use it ;/
I hope you can get it through his head that he is embarrassing you and get him to stop.
xoxo







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